Sunday, June 30, 2013

The Social Death....

The Social death


In the early 1990s’, the first time, Indian economy was left open to the masses.
We can say, that was one of the first initiatives by India government to step into the experience of much bigger, much profitable global markets.
Till then, the first four and a half decades of Indian governance was mainly based on much restricted, much controlled business environment.


The initiative to decontrol, let loose was of course welcome by one & all. The Indian manufacturing sector suddenly had an easy access to the global demand, and be a part & a contributor into the global economic system.
And at the same time, the world raised its head to glance towards India as a much stronger and potentially dormant consumer & user of/for their products.

The nation, of course took a few years to absorb & get used to the changed equations of the world markets.
Along with the commerce & economics, it brought a radical change in the social configuration of Indian masses.
The influx of foreign goods, technology and an easy access to adapt, use & consume, the lifestyle related goods, created a sense of awe, amusement & surprise in the Indian social circle.
The financially blessed class could put their hands on the latest productions, almost at the same time with their foreign counterparts.

Besides the obvious craze & adaptations, came the biggest revolution for the people of India in the form of CONNECTIVITY.
It can be well claimed that the 2nd half of the decade of 90s’, made the world much smaller a space for us. It suddenly made the actual geographical distance seem to matter lesser & lesser.
Yes, here we are talking about the freedom to get connected, liberalization of the telecommunication world, internet & world-wide-web.
Though it made it’s late entry into India, was already a phenomenon, being made optimum use of, by developed economies of the West.


Now, leaving the last 2 decades behind us, let’s step into our todays’, the current times into the 2nd decade of 21st Century.
If we ask almost anybody in India, randomly, irrespective of caste, creed, color, religion, education, social class, financial standings; about their view point of last 20 years; are sure to get an unanimous response in the form of various steep, extreme, sudden changes being experienced by one & all, in the last a decade or so., precisely in the last 7-8 years.
Here we refer to the changes in the form of actually experiencing, in person, the Darwinism theory & principles of “Struggle for survival” & “Survival for the fittest”.
The Indian Socio-economic system has experienced all the vulnerabilities which came with the liberalization, as a package. The recessionary phase became a more frequent cycle, instead of once upon a time story.
But the biggest impact which struck the nation, was the unexpected change in the lives of the people. Liberalization did bring a change in the technical aspect, but without the people being made ready to embrace the same.
It was like too quick, too sudden.
The mentality, the attitude, the acceptance, the understanding was too immature to touch & feel the change through your hands. It went on like a slide-show which keeps you amused all throughout and not giving enough time to actually fix your senses & get attached to it.

As we know, one needs to start from kindergarten & spend the next 10 years, under gradual, systematic, cumulative advance to reach to the first competitive level of Std- X.
Here the Indian mass was exposed to & promoted much faster & thrown into the highly advanced times, with much less experience & maturity to actually deserve the stand.


Along with it came the increased polarization of the people in every sense of the term.
Most of us, I believe, must have experienced through the late night sweet stories from our parents & Grand-Parents about their times, where the words of virtue as “trust” , “security”, “hard-work”, “honesty”, “responsibility”, “adaptability” , “patience” ; always found repetitive mentions.
But frankly, these mentions are getting rarer with every passing day, today.
The trust is lost within families. Nobody can claim & feel fully secured. Hard-work is replaced by smart/quick work.
Honesty doesn’t earn money.
Nobody wants to take responsibilities on their shoulders and be accounted.
Patience is the hardest thing to put into practice & thus adaptability has become a rare case model.
The entire focus and efforts are being applied to earn more & more money & power to keep oneself an edge above all, to be happier, to feel more secured, and to maintain one’s social status.

It’s not bad to earn money, more money; but the compromises being done & means to achieve the same has forced man to stoop to an embarrassing level.
The principles & ethics are the matter being ridiculed and anybody referring to such terms is being considered a hypocrite. 
The innocent, immature, ill-experienced mind of a 10-12 year old in the late 90s’ was exposed to the lure of mobile phones & internet. Suddenly the world for them became of multiple choices and dreams generated to achieve the same, at any cost.


One morning, one day, and things changed for them.
The simple rustic laid-back child, the emerging youth started dreaming of reaching to the moon. And at the same time, came the realization that it’s a race and he/she needs to be one of the front-liners to touch the winning line.
THE RACE IS ON.
Winning at all cost attitudes is getting stronger.
Compromises being done.
Rules are broken.
Short cuts being discovered & implemented.
The innocence of the childhood met SUDDEN death. The physical senses got exposed to the medium much faster & much deeper than actual inner elevation of thoughts, education, action & thus the wisdom.
The medium of latest gadgets implanted in them the new level of desire, greed, dreams beyond the practical limits of nature. And the medium took complete control of their controlling system and made them increasingly non-sensitive towards much required social etiquettes, responsibilities & behaviors.
And this, somehow, I believe resulted in frequent recent non-human incidents of suicides, rapes, killings.
The fact that, the happenings like these are being considered at its peak, in recent times, shows the source , the root , around a decade and a half back, when the innocent minds were infused with various forces and made vulnerable.
I consider the late 90s’ as the time, the tipping point, of the socially destructive phenomena which we all are experiencing today.

Friends, the science, the technology, the evolution is not bad.
It’s a blessing for every living being on earth, if being used at the right time, with care & with respect to the nature around us.
Before the changes are being applied to serve the mankind, why not the social system, the biggest beneficiary, be made aware, made educated, and made to understand the pros & the cons?

Change is good. Change is welcomed. But the people, for whom the change is being brought about, should be the matter of subject on the first hand…..

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Wednesday, October 24, 2012

The Push & Pull of life...

In the journey of passing through the life, we are being lured with many temptations. Some good, some bad. There are times when you can’t judge what’s right & what’s wrong for you. You tend to move on with the flow, the pull of the events, the pull of the people around you. But as we know & understand, nothing lasts forever. The experiences you have passed through, the actions you have taken, the behaviour you have conducted; seem to be standing at crossroads with your own self. You regret some , you embrace some , and you smile at some. The ones who create a sad feeling in within you are the ones which remain as ghost images and follow you like a shadow. It’s important to release these threads, the bindings, by making truce with the people, the events, the actions attached with such emotions. Unless you can make yourself completely detached & feel pleasantly released, you may not experience & live your life with the same passion, zeal & strongly positive emotions. The only way to break out of such negative formations, is to enter into mutually pardonable situations & make peace with the people, events & actions; responsible for such formations.

Monday, June 20, 2011

Time to Decide !!!!

Yesterday, I was driving, and the FM radio went off for few seconds. I thought, I should have an i-Pod. Then suddenly I realized that I have not used my i-Pod in last 6 months. And then more things possessed but unused, Handy-cam in last 2 years, Digi-Cam in last 2 months, DVD player in last 1 month & many more. Now I can say that I bought that Handy-cam just out of an impulse, as I have used it only once in last couple of years.
So, what’s wrong & where? When I look at myself or my friends, I can see it everywhere. We are not happy with what we have but are stressed and not happy for the things we don’t have. You have a Santro, but you want City; You have a City, but you want Skoda; just after buying a new phone, we need another one; better laptops, bigger TVs, faster cars, bigger house, more money. I mean, these examples are endless. The point is, is it actually worth?
Do we ever think if we actually need those things before we want them, buy them?
After this, I was forced to think what I need & what I don’t. May be I didn’t need this Hand- cam or the i-Pod or that DVD player. When I see my dad back at home, he has a simple BPL color TV, he doesn’t need 32”Sony LCD wall mount, he has a cell phone worth Rs 2,500. Whenever I asked him to change the phone, he always replied: It’s just a phone, I need this just for calls. Believe me, he is much happier in life than me with those limited resources & simple gadgets.
The very basic reason why he is happy with so little is that he doesn’t want things in life to make it luxurious, but he wants only those things which are making his life easier, convenient. There’s a very fine line between these two. But after looking my dad’s life-style closely, I got the point.
He needs a cell phone but not the i-Phone. He needs a TV but not the 32” plasma. He needs a car but not an expensive one.
Initially I had lot of questions.
I am earning good, still I am not happy...why ?
I have all luxuries, still I am stressed...... why ?
I had a great weekend, still I am feeling tired...... why?
I met lot of people &thought over it again and again, I still don’t know if I got the answers, but certainly figured out few things. I realized that one thing which is keeping me stressed is the stay-connected syndrome. I realized that, at home too, I am logged in on messengers, checking mails, using social network sites, and on top of that, the windows mobile is not letting me disconnected. I realized that I am spending far lesser money than what I earn, even then I am always worried about money and more money. I realized that I am saving enough money I would ever need, Still I am stressed, worried & in secured about job, salary and spendings.
May be, many people will call this approach a non-progressive attitude, but I want my life back. Ultimately it’s a single life, a day gone is a day gone. I believe, if I am not happy tonight, I’ll never be happy tomorrow morning. I finally realized that meeting friends, spending quality time with your loved ones; spending time with yourself is the most important thing. If on Sunday you are alone & you don’t have anybody to talk with, then all these luxuries of life, all this money is wasted. May be, cutting down on your requirements & wants, re-calculating your future goal in the light of today’s happiness is a worthwhile thing to do. May be selling off your Santro & buying a Honda City on EMIs is not a good idea.
I believe putting your happiness ahead of money is the choice we need to make.
I think, a lot can be said and done but what we need the most is re-evaluation of the value of happiness and time we are giving to our life and people associated with it.
Change does not Happen when Circumstances Improves......
Change happens when YOU Decide to Improve YOUR circumstances !

Monday, December 6, 2010

Sanjay-jogani.blogspot.com: "Where the mind craves for peace" **

Sanjay-jogani.blogspot.com: "Where the mind craves for peace" **

"Where the mind craves for peace" **

"PEACE of MIND"
seems we've left far behind;
Can't find it in my hind(sight);
May have lost it, in my Mind..............

The world is growing, life so fast;
In the attempt to measure, space so Vast;
Wonder when did I stop counting stars, last?
Lost track & the stars too, in the sky so overcast(Pollution)......

We are humans with a little heart & a little mind;
which leaves all other species behind;
Once,We could boast,
for d heart, which could feel & d mind, which could create; Coloring world so Pink..
Today,
Mind still creates, but the noise of destruction makes our hearts Sink......

Man today, needs a bigger space to live within;
They are eye-ing Mars sitting on the Moon;
The greed for one more home, away from home;
I would call it a "CURSE" not a "BOON"...................

In our Motherland (India), Family, culture & values
still are being hold the Highest..............
(over)ambition of building walls away from our corners;
have seen the fall of the Mightiest...............

Let our parents be the Earth & we be the Moon around them;
Our Children be the stars, shining & smiling, all around us........
With the sky so clear & hearts so near; we don't need more Jupiters;
Let we be the world & not the world for us...................

At last, I found the PEACE in my Mind;
within the FRIENDS so close & kind;
Lets stop the chase of Rat & Mouse;
And make a "HOME" out of our "HOUSE"........

Thursday, September 30, 2010

The most important need of the hour is -
The requirement of sufficient food, clothing & shelter for all in India.
The focus should be right education & jobs for all concerned.
The idea should be an "all inclusive growth".
The "temples" & "mosques" are not going to help fulfill your needs & make your future brighter.
The vision of "prosperous India 2050" should be aimed at.
We all are one. India is our Mother land.
The disputes arising out of lack of understanding & communication are always created by wasted interest for their own benefit. We all need to understand that & reacting to such provocation is not going to help us or anybody., but only the people who want us to break & divide.
Be UNITED. Be TOGETHER.
Fight & voice, not only for your own self but for your country, for your people....

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

"feel blessed .. live life"

I've seen castles made out of sand,
Met people who believe destiny is engraved on the palm of their hands,
I've seen people change their faith,
Experienced love change into hate,
I've seen people grow younger with age,
And a bird who wouldn't fly out of an open cage,
I've seen love sold for money,
People who are devastated inside but outside they're funny,
I've seen the unicorn fall in love with the toad,
People who owned half the city have now hit the road,
I've learned to expect the unexpected,
Perfection doesn't exist, we're all defected,
Everyone cries,some just hide their tears,
They say coal turns diamond over a thousand years,
Someone may believe u are one in a million,
For others u are just another nobody in the billion.
So live life wid all that u have, cherish all ur moments Happy or Sad!! Feel blessed with what u r!! Coz Life is tooo short n we are jus here for a Moment!!

Saturday, August 7, 2010

power of faith & perspective ..

"Power of faith & the perspective it brings"

I am standing on the sea shore. A ship appears & spreads her white sails to the morning breeze & starts for the ocean.
She is an object of beauty & I stand watching her till at last she fades away on the horizon, & someone at my side quietly says, "she is gone." Gone where ?
Gone from my vision, that is all;
She is just as large as. When I saw her last.

The diminished size & the total loss of sight is in me, not in her;
And just at the moment when someone at my side says, "she is gone," there are others who are watching her coming & other voices take up a joyful shout, "there she comes !!"...

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Sanjay-jogani.blogspot.com: "The change" !!!

Sanjay-jogani.blogspot.com: "The change" !!!

"The change" !!!

"Here I find, myself, sitting in my office...thinking hard about life or d life in me..!!
how it changed frm a simple carefree college life to d strict professional life..?
how tiny pocket money changed into monthly paychecks, but fails to satisfy needs..?
how a few local denims changed into branded wardrobes, but less moments to use them.?
how a single plate of samosas changed into a full plate pizzas & burgers, but no sight of hunger..?
how a bike always in reserve changed into d car always full, but less places & less people to travel with..?
how a small round d corner coffee shop changed into chain of Cafe coffee days', but no time for a cup of coffee with a dear frnd..!!
here I m sitting in my office@night, thinking hard abt life, how it changed or how did we...?"
Missing all those precious moments & all my friends, who continue to be the most valuable part of my life of yesterdays' , today & for the tomorrows' to come...

Friday, June 4, 2010

"God Gifted"...

Today, I happened to be a part of one of the most miraculous creation of the Almighty.A musical concert performed by God gifted, mentally & physically challenged children. Though this creation seems a bit discriminatory at first sight, but the unimaginable gift in the form of immense talent, which is showered on the kids, left me speechless. It was the performance extraordinaire !! The grip on the voice, melody, beats was impeccable. They sang old hindi melodies, solo & duets, as well as some of the latest hit numbers. They danced on the beats of the current chart busters and also made us laugh by their circus gimmicks. The real shock or surprise came in the form of an end of the show announcement that most of those kids had hearing disability. Just imagine singing a song or moving on the floor, dancing with grace without being able to listen the music...
Isn't it a miracle ??
Only the supreme power above us all, knows the existence of many more strong "senses" within human access beyond the six, we happen to know & understand...
Salute to the children, their confidence to come forward & present flawless performances & also to the entire team behind the scene who made all this possible by unearthing the true & real potential from within these kids...
Thanks to my uncle Mr Atul Jogani (Bangkok) for providing me this opportunity, to be able to have exposure to this face of human reality...!!

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